How to kiss great

How to kiss great!
Here are tips and advice on how to be a great kisser
so your kisses are unforgettable!
Whether you've never had your first kiss or
have kissed and been kissed a million times
before, you'll find out:
• How to make that first kiss special!
• How to hold that special someone when you're kissing!
• Special kisses (tips and advice)
• French kissing -- how to do it right!

Yes... here's all the kissing info you need!

How to kiss shyness goodbye!

We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way
it's so perfect, and the way it just happens.

But real life is different. You're with that
special someone at the movies. You want to
kiss. But does he? Is he shy?
Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss
him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or
maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the
one who's shy. That's why kissing games
are so popular.

Spin the bottle

The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other
kissing games are so popular is that they let
you kiss someone without having to admit
that you like the person you're kissing. You're
kissing because you have to.

Kissing games are also a good way to try
different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle,"
a group of guys and girls sit in a circle,
and take turns spinning a bottle. When the
bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's
pointing to.

But what if you're not playing a kissing game?
How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how:

How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!

After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.

You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.

And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.

How to get him to kiss you

Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."

First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"

Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.


Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

How to kiss

When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.

What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.

On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

French kissing
(or Frenching)

French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!

Kissing with glasses or braces

If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.

If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!

If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!

Kissing do's and dont's

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

Kissing and health

Can you "catch something" by kissing?
Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to
a pretty serious sexually transmitted
disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it
could be transmitted by kissing someone who
has the disease, especially if you have any
cuts in your mouth.

There's no such thing as 100% safety. But
if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until
it's over. If you see he's got sores on his
mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have
cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses
your chance of passing on infection.

I don't want to make you paranoid, but just
to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing"
so keep that in mind.

Kissing and s-e-x

Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just
because you kiss a guy you have to do anything
more.

On the other hand, once you're kissing
passionatley, you might both feel like going further.
The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss
him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in
a movie theater or on your front porch, you know
it's not going to lead to sex right there!

On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when
your parents aren't home, there's not really anything
to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid.